4 Things I Learnt From Moving Abroad at an Early Age
As a Lebanese citizen, Immigration has through generations become the “Lebanese Dream”. Regardless of the motivation, it was one of the most common options that my generation sought. A brighter future, a broader spectrum of opportunities. It is no lie that the limitations back there can be drastic and unbearable.
Yet, growing up, moving abroad was always glorified as the paradise city where life just gets glamorous. You re-locate to a foreign country, and “BOOM” you are successful, happy, on the edge. Some might say “rich”.
“The grass is always greener on the other side!”. Except, it might be, but not effortlessly. As the outcome of my personal experience, I would like to share these four lessons learnt from moving abroad at an early age.
1. Keep an Open Mind
You may find yourself distinct in your community of origin, which might cover the commonalities imposed culturally and traditionally. The moment you enter a new community, culture and traditions, you are in the spotlight undoubtedly. Keep your mind open, and don’t feel insulted if people don’t recognize your values, boundaries, and standards that are bound to your heritage. Attempt to introduce yourself, and represent to others your values, with few words why you value them. Attempt this new culture with a fresh mind and curiosity. The more cultures, the more perspective, the better conditioning with all circumstances.
2. Read Immigration Rules and Regulations
Even when you possibly rely on a trusted person’s help to settle in the country of question, it is necessary that you are aware of your obligations and rights. Many native people in the country you have moved to might be ignorant of the immigration rules simply because they are not immigrants. It is no rocket science that you wouldn’t also, if you had an ordinary simple life in your country of origin.
3. Share
The world is expanding with the help of digitization. A global community that is diverse and international is sought in most big-sized businesses and cities. It is an opportunity to bring forward the good cultural values that you adapt in your life.
In my country, we value a lot generosity. Thus, I would do my best to express that and share it with my surrounding. Not downgrading any other culture, but to exchange the beauty of each.
Remember, the flaws in any culture, even the one you grew up in, is not yours to bear or defend blindly. Stick to what makes you happy, and spread it.
4. Do It, Yourself.
Yes, going back to my second point on the importance of you knowing precisely where you stand and where you are heading.
It is uncertain enough to start from scratch somewhere new. Do what you got to, yourself. Nothing beats learning from your own experiences. Reflect on how you are handling your life situations, and let those experiences guide your personal growth. Diversity is best understood by those who struggled to find a place to fit.
Every step outside your comfort zone is ought to bring growth opportunities down your way. Take that opportunity, make the most of it, reflect and adjust. You might be so close to finding a third way to live life, with the best of all the cultures you interact with.
What are your concerns in regards to immigration & engaging in a new community? And if you already have, what are you top lessons learnt?
